Soft Girls have been trending for a while now, and for good reason. Who can resist this feminine, elegant, aproachable look?
Before we dive in, first things first.
We are going to explore the following Soft Girl topics:
- What is a Soft Girl?
- and How to become a Soft Girl!
1. What is a Soft Girl?
A Soft Girl is a girl who basically looks as fresh as springtime blooms, who has a feminine, nurturing energy.
She cultivates her femininity with poise and elegance, while exuding a happy, positive energy that helps everyone around her brighten up!
Think of Hachi in the Anime/Manga Nana, by Ai Yazawa.
2. How to become a Soft Girl?
Now, we are going to teach you how to become a Soft Girl!
Soft Girl Personality Traits
First, you should know that being a Soft Girl requires a certain type of personality. If you don't have it yet, don't worry!
You can take the time to learn and cultivate it.
Soft Girls are typically very caring, feminine and nurturing. So, how does it translate in real life?
Here are a few examples:
- Spending time with your family
- Taking care of a plant or a pet
- Taking care of / decorating the home...
And perform these tasks gently and diligently, with a smile!
As you can see, these are all very feminine activities that you can do to cultivate your feminine energy.
Over time, you will be more comfortable with reacting in a more feminine manner to your environment.
It will help you grow the elegance within your personality.
And if you started out as a Tom Boy like me, trust me, it works!
It was a bit awkward at first, but the feminine vibes settle in quickly after a few days.
Soft Girl Favorite Hobbies
Soft Girls thrive in the more calming, nurturing activities such as cooking for friends and family and foral composition.
They also enjoy cultivating their intellectual and romantic side by reading 1800's novels, literary classics and listening or playing classical music.
Taking a good care of yourself is also very important, as the Soft Girl look is actually minimalist and requires looking all nice and fresh at all times.
As a summary, a Soft Girl likes to:
- Play the Piano
- Read Poetry
- Baking for her friends / family
- Decorate the house / her bedroom
- Taking care of her skin, hair and do her nails.
Soft Girl Manners and Etiquette
Wearing elegant outfits comes with watching your posture, and learning the rules of etiquette.
Good posture and good manners will give you a more poised attitude that will match your new style and make it look like you "belong" in your outfit!
It comes with fun stuff to learn, such as table manners or gifting etiquette.
Enjoy the process, and let us know how this is going for you!
We'd love to hear about it!
Practice makes perfect. Take your time!
This Part 1 is actually necessary before adopting the Soft Girl Aesthetic outfits, and here's why.
Simply because if you start as a tom boy, you will find it extremely awkward to wear cute flowery dresses all of a sudden!
Trust me, I tried lol!
It took me a couple of months to adjust while doing more feminine activities at home, as well as learning postures, good manners and rules of etiquette.
Wearing elegant sets like this one came more naturally after, and felt a lot more natural!
This is the end of Part 1: How to become a Soft Girl (Personality Traits).
We hope you enjoyed!
💕 - Hailey @ The UwU Team (◕ܫ◕✿)
😊 Read Part 2, where we explore the Soft Girl Aesthetic!